'You feel like a walking coffin': Conroe mom says Texas' strict abortion laws endangered her health

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Wednesday, August 3, 2022 11:44PM
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"It's not just affecting those who aren't ready to be moms. It's people like me who want children." A Conroe woman is telling her personal impact posed to her by the Texas abortion ban.

CONROE, Texas (KTRK) -- A Conroe woman who suffered a miscarriage says the state's restrictive abortion laws forced her into a dangerous health situation.

Marlena Stell always wanted a big family. She was overjoyed when she and her husband got pregnant with their second child last summer.

Then came her nine-and-a-half week ultrasound.

"As soon as she paused - and it was silent for a minute - I knew right away," Stell said. "As I was lying there on the table, it was just mental and emotional trauma (that) I just did not think would happen."

Stell had miscarried.

She asked her doctor for a dilation and curettage, otherwise known as a D&C, which is a common procedure to remove the fetus after a miscarriage to prevent infection.

"I had a miscarriage in 2018 before I had my daughter in 2020, and I was not able to expel. It was an awful experience with that miscarriage in that I had severe pain, but I was not expelling anything," Stell said.

But by then, it was early September, and the state had just banned abortion for pregnancies after about six weeks.

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Stell said she was first required to get a second ultrasound. Then, she said every doctor she called in the Houston area refused to give her the procedure, citing confusing abortion bans.

"You feel like a walking coffin. You're just walking around knowing that you're carrying a loss," she explained. "It felt like I was jumping through so many hoops just to get care for something that had already happened. I already had lost the baby."

She thought about going to another state.

"Do I drive somewhere? We were going through all these options, and my first thought was, 'Yes, I can get on a plane,' but it's so many hours to get back home," she said. "What if something happens on the plane and I start miscarrying on a plane and I'm stuck in the air?"

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Stell said she carried the unviable fetus for two weeks before ultimately going to an abortion clinic for a D&C procedure.

That clinic stopped offering procedures after Roe v. Wade was overturned and is now closing.

"That's the story that a lot of people don't realize. That it's not just affecting those that aren't ready to be moms," she said. "It's people like me who want children, but need care. Because I cannot expel a miscarriage. It's just as simple as that. If there is medical intervention available, why do I have to fight to get it?"

The experience has also changed her family's focus.

"I decided that I just don't want to get pregnant anymore, because I don't feel that it would be safe for me. And at the end of the day, I don't want to risk my health for a daughter that I do have that needs her mom," she said.

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